王惠云

While a man was polishing his new car， his four years old son picked up a stone and scratched lines

In anger， the man took the childs hand and hit it many times； not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital， the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.

When the child saw his father with painful eyes he asked， “Dad， when will my fingers grow back？”The man was so hurt and speechless； he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions... sitting in front of the car he looked at the scratches； the child had written “LOVE YOU DAD”.

If he had only controlled his anger， his son would have not lost his fingers. The man was full of regrets and wished he could bring back the time and have it corrected but he couldnt undo what has happened.

The Bible says， “A fool gives full vent to his anger， but a wise man keeps himself under control.”

And “A mans wisdom gives him patience， it is to his glory to overlook an offense.”

Anger and Love have no limits； choose the Love to have a beautiful， lovely life.

Things are to be used and people are to be loved， but the problem in todays world is that， people are used and things are loved.

Lets be careful to keep this thought in mind： "Things are to be used， but People are to be loved".

Do you love your family， friends and neighbors more than the material things？ Or you care on those things more and have neglected the people around… those people who love and care for you？

一個男人正在擦拭他的新車，這時，他四歲的兒子撿起一個石子在車子的側(cè)面劃了幾條痕跡。

盛怒之下，男人抓起孩子的手狠狠地擊打起來，絲毫沒意識到自己手持的是扳鉗。

在醫(yī)院里，由于多處骨折，孩子失去了右手的五指。

看到父親痛苦的眼神，孩子問道：“爸爸，我的手指什么時候能長出來？”

男人心如刀割、無言以對。他回到自己的車旁，沖著車狂踢不止，之后，他癱坐在那里，抬頭看著車上的劃痕，發(fā)現(xiàn)孩子寫的是：“爸爸，我愛你。”

如果他當時能夠控制住自己的怒火，他的兒子就不會失去手指。男人懊悔不已，他多么希望時間能夠倒轉(zhuǎn)，事情可以挽回，然而，他卻無能為力。

圣經(jīng)上說：“愚妄人怒氣全發(fā)，智慧人忍氣含怒?！?/p>

又說：“人有見識，就不輕易發(fā)怒，寬恕人的過失，便是自己的榮耀?！?/p>

憤怒與愛沒有界限，選擇愛會讓你擁有美好愉悅的生活。

東西是用來使用的，人是用來愛的，然而在當今的世界里，人是用來使喚的，東西是用來愛的。

讓我們牢記這句話：“東西是用來使用的，人是用來愛的?！?/p>

你對家人、朋友和鄰居的愛是否勝過對物質(zhì)的熱愛？還是你太過關(guān)注那些物質(zhì)而忽略了你周圍的人，那些關(guān)心、愛護你的人？